I struggle still with personal conflict. Sometimes with myself but more often when it's between two other people in my family. I want to do something, take a side, sit them down, get it fixed.
I try to have patience and let them sort things out. There's a time and a place to butt in. When someone is being immature and giving the silent treatment, I'm tempted to interject. But mostly now I just sit on my hands and wait it out. If things haven't been sorted the next day, I'll start on something.
But man, I really find conflict hard.